I went out for coffee yesterday with my friend the Musician. We are working on a project together and this was the first time in a month he's had time off.
Somewhere around the hour mark of sitting in a crowded Tim Hortons, the talk came around to how we both are single at the moment. Then he says sort of out of nowhere that I should meet his friend D. then said "but he's got a girlfriend at the moment."
Um... then why would I need to meet him? I'm confused. He continued chatting a bit about the topic of dating in general and made another comment about another friend of his and all I can say is warning bells went off.
When a man says to me "You totally have to meet my buddy he's really depressed right now" I know he's not someone who I should be getting anywhere near. It's great and all that he wants to see his buddy doing better, but no one wants to be the band-aid rebound. Ever.
So I showed my friend the Musician a photo of my wrestler and flat out said "This is my type." Topic got changed very quickly.