Maybe he's just shy

I hear this alot when it comes to Galvin.  To be honest, part of me wants to believe it, and part of me never could believe it.
I may never know at this rate.
  
He comes across as a total bad boy most of the time, but I would be lying to you if I said I didn't feel there's more there to him.  It's like he walked off of a page in a romance novel, there's just something about him that makes me think of a lost little boy. 
I'm dying to know what it is too. 

In season 4 of Sex and the City (episode 51 Defining Moments) Carrie finds Big to be jealous of her new boyfriend, Charlotte has public sex and Samantha dates a woman.  The episode's question of the week has Carrie wondering "What really defines a relationship?"

What does define a relationship these days?  I mean, I've had relationships that were purely physical, some that were completely done by internet/phone,  ones that were sensual but never became physical, and some that have been ... well complicated to say the lest.

I'm sitting here now, struggling at how much I should say about him and how much to keep to myself. If it is a case of him being just shy, he should know by now what I think of him. 

I'll keep you posted