I was just reading an article on how in dreams the way we view ourselves reflects more on how we see ourselves in reality. Well yeah that's a given.
In most cases, I hate to say it but I see myself in my dreams the way I was physically when I was in my late teens/early twenties.
I hated myself back then. Those dreams, I know my issues are self esteem related. And usually, in those particular dreams I'm; ironically married or in a really great relationship.
So what does this mean? That the more I become comfortable with myself the less chance I have of ever finding love?
Some might think it has to do with accepting that not everything is as it appears.
Dreams where I am looking physically like I am currently, always have me lost trying to find a building, running late for an appointment and even back in high school/college. And always, there is a faceless man. Well, not faceless as much as I never remember what he looks like when I wake up.
That's pretty much an obvious connection.