As some of you reading this might know, I over the last two years, have signed up for almost every relationship course and newsletter I've come across and even worked with a few Life Coaches.
And I've noticed something.
Less then 1% of them talk about finding the right person for you. Most of them all talk about how to change the person you are with or how to change your ex. How to make them want to become the person you want them to be.
Why do you think that is?
They all in some ways, talk about finding a way to make the mistakes couples are making into a bridge of love... and I'm not being cocky either. That is the term over half of them use.
Does anyone else feel like that is just a pointless thing to be doing? Trying to turn the person you're with into someone they're not? I can't help but wonder why they would be telling us as a society to be trying to change the people we are already with instead of how to bring the right person to us?
And for those of us not already in a relationship, are we to believe we are just shit out of luck?
Either way, it seems that two wrongs just do not make a right.
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