I was reading an article this morning, about how when we're emotionally hurt, our hearts create this magnetic energy around it. The author of the article was referring to it as a wall. They went on to talk about how when we really fall for someone, when we think about them enough, not just in our brains, but really feel the love/lust/desire for them, their brains will actually react to it having them think of us.
In magical terms, this is a thoughtform. In science this is a magnetic pull. And according to the relationship experts, this is the soulmate connection we keep hearing about. The connection over 95% of the world's population is hunting for.
While I was wrapping up the article, a line from the 2007 movie version of Mansfield Park started to play in my mind. Two of the characters are talking about the youngest available sister and say "She is quite ready to be fallen in love with."
I just couldn't get this line out of my head this morning. But it got me thinking about unrequited love. Which is one of the main themes running through the story. They did not say that she's ready to fall in love, but that she's ready to be fallen in love with.
How many of us, when speaking about a relationship or dating, say we're ready to find someone, or ready to fall in love? Shouldn't we be reversing that phrase and saying we're ready to have someone find us, to be fallen in love with?
Everyone has at some point, had their heartbroken, and yet no matter what, we're told to keep looking. And in the end, we all know that you need to stand still deal with the hurt and when you're really ready, someone pops out of the woodwork and finds you.
Just something to think about this morning.
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